Thursday, October 21, 2010

Lessons learned

This week was random as well as every other week of my life. I spend most of my time here in Tampa getting lost and honked at.

Monday- I decided that google directions without a co-pilot in the car is just a great way to get in a wreck and get whiplash when you read a street name that looks familiar. I refuse to get a GPS system only because I enjoy saving money and its just another piece of technology that doesn't require brain work. So, to elaborate on how random my life is I had to find a truck stop outside of Tampa to pick up something for school (another story). I do get credit for actually finding the place 20min later, but sadly my Spanish speaking skills are non-existent at this point and I was unable to get what I came there for. Tampa's road system is full of one-ways that jet you pretty far outside of the city without finding a connector to turn you around the other way. Google directions do not work in reverse for one-ways, if that makes sense. So, basically I end up in ghettoville near Ybor City with only one bar left on my phone and no GPS. 45 minutes later in my car, I decided that I might have a full on panic attack.  Nobody was answering their phone and of course my phone died attempting to do so. It was getting dark and I already lost sight of the skyline...so I figured this was it. I was going to get car-jacked, mugged, or drive around until daylight. My life-saving device was my compass on my car. I knew I needed to go south, so I trusted that and by the grace of God I made a few lucky turns and found a road that looked familar. I came home and didn't eat dinner or shower. I just jumped in the bed and hugged my pillow.  I'm sure people think I'm so sketchy here, because I can never find people's houses or find places where I need to be at. As for tonight goes, I got lost going to hot yoga which is 5 minutes away using Google directions. That's sad.

Lesson learned # 1- Never drive in a new city with google directions. Bus systems aren't so bad afterall and never hesitate to 'bother' people and call them for help. My co-workers were shocked I made it out of that area without any problems. I'm so hood.

Another lesson I really took to heart was from one of my pediatric patients who suffered a hard blow from a medical condition which resulted in brain surgery and a partially shaved head. For HIPPA purposes I cannot disclose too much information so I'll just make it as simple as possible. This little girl has thrown toys in my face and has used the shower head as a weapon against me. I ended up going to a very important meeting, drenched. She is one of my more difficult patients to work with. Anyways, I knocked on her hospital room door and came in to start working on her ADLs. She was extra quite that morning and I knew something was up. So, I turned my head and stared at her to initiate a reaction. She looked more sad than usual and all she had to say was, "Miss Laura, Can I have your hair?" How do you answer that to a pretty little young girl who has lost her hair? I have touching moments everyday with these kids who are very sick and still have so much life to live.

Life Lesson #2- Appreciate what health you do have and never let go of your more 'difficult' friends/family. They need you more than you even know.  

3 comments:

  1. We definitely come by our lack of directional skills honestly. I truly believe it is genetic. I've gotten so lost I ended up in an elementary school parent pick-up line one time. That doesn't give me quite the street cred that your encounter does though.

    I love the story about the little girl. It really does apply to all kinds of people though. Sometimes people want to hurt other people (in your case with a shower head) just b/c they are hurting so bad themselves inside they want to have someone understand how they feel. And sometimes you've just got to be the blunt of that blow for that very reason. I'm sure she appreciates you more than she lets on. I would still pay money to see her assault you with a shower head though.

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  2. I'm so glad no kids were injured that day. You would have loved to have seen me get hosed. Is that ebonic?

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  3. The first time you visited Tampa over 23 years ago, you had to have a bungee type harness so that you would not get lost. Looks like maybe you still could use it! Mistakes are great as long as you learn from them.

    Hug your patient for me.

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